Yesterday was our big photo shoot with our favorite photographer, Robert Bruce. Averie did great considering it was a three-hour shoot! I am sure the pics are going to be adorable. Hoping to have photos to share some time next week. And daddy only got pooped on once and peed on twice!
Congrats to my friends Tim and Katie on the birth of their little princess Madelyn!
And good luck to my girl Stephanie, who is being induced tomorrow. Can't wait to meet Baby Girl Trinity!
Two-week update: Averie is sleeping about three-hours before waking at night to eat. Let's hope we are up to four by next week!
Lilypie First Birthday tickers
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Meet Averie Morgan
Sorry that it has taken so long to post, being a new mommy is hard work ... and finding the time to write this up seemed almost impossible.
I am so proud and honored to announce that Averie Morgan arrived on August 14th at 4:11 p.m. She was 6 pounds, 4 ounces and 18 inches long - and absolutely stunning. Here is our story.
On Saturday, August 13th, mommy did lots of walking (yes - with her cam walker on since her foot is still broken). Then, we headed off to Mike's family reunion. Everyone told me I would be going late because my belly hadn't dropped at all.
On Sunday morning, about 5:30 a.m., I got up to use the bathroom. Got back into bed and felt something "pop." I thought our little peanut maybe made the decision to drop, but then I felt like I was peeing myself (I know, gross!). All I could think was she was pressing down on something that was causing me to lose bladder control. So I hobbled back into the bathroom and surprise, my water broke! I sat there for a second to take in what happened and then woke Mike up. We were both pretty shocked.
I called our doctor and doula and tried to labor at home for a little while ... but Mike was worried about not getting to the hospital in time (gotta love a first time dad). So we headed out around 8:30. Let me tell you, trying to get to the hospital AFTER your water breaks, NOT FUN! I swear, every time I got up or had a contraction, more water. So we used doggie pee pads on the car seat. Nice visual I'm sure - but I can assure you, it wasn't pretty.
When we arrived, I was 90% effaced and 1.5 cm dialated. Very disappointing. I thought this was going to take forever and I was already pretty uncomfortable.
I got moved into our delivery room around 10:30. They tried to put my IV in four times ... and each time, it "popped" (resulting in horrible bruises up and down both arms). They finally called an anesthesiologist in to do it.
At about 12:45, I was dilated to a four, 100% effaced and at station O. I was in a lot of pain, so I asked for the epidural. THANK GOODNESS! It came pretty quickly and by 1:20, I was feeling a bit of relief.
Unfortunately, that didn't last too long because I progressed pretty quickly. By 3:00, I was 9.5+ cm dilated.
At 3:22, I was absolutely miserable, telling Mike I was NEVER going to do this again. It wasn't really pain, but this HORRIBLE pressure. Definitely not something I had ever experienced before. I knew it was time.
Unfortunately, my doctor was busy delivering another baby and the dad in that room wasn't doing too well. So we had a resident - who was overseen by someone else, but honestly, at that point, I didn't even care. I just knew I wanted her out.
We started pushing shortly after. At one point, her heart rate dropped and I had to stop, got turned on my side and given oxygen. They stimulated her head and got it back up ... so I was able to keep going. After only 33 minutes of pushing, our sweet baby Averie arrived at 4:11.
Mike cried and I think I was still in shock that I actually did it. I got stiched up while Mike watched over her and soon enough, we were in recovery holding our little miracle.
I have a lot of great pics from the hospital ... just waiting to get them all from family. They are coming soon.
Other than that, I feel bad that I haven't talked with many of you - but this mom stuff is a lot of hard work. When you get a free moment, you really just want to curl up and relax. But Averie and I hope to see all of you soon ... at least once I get the ok to start driving again (still waiting on this foot to heal).
In the meantime, feel free to pop in for a visit, email or call. I love you all and thank everyone for the support and for convincing me to not immediately sign up for the c-section. I survived!
I am so proud and honored to announce that Averie Morgan arrived on August 14th at 4:11 p.m. She was 6 pounds, 4 ounces and 18 inches long - and absolutely stunning. Here is our story.
On Saturday, August 13th, mommy did lots of walking (yes - with her cam walker on since her foot is still broken). Then, we headed off to Mike's family reunion. Everyone told me I would be going late because my belly hadn't dropped at all.
On Sunday morning, about 5:30 a.m., I got up to use the bathroom. Got back into bed and felt something "pop." I thought our little peanut maybe made the decision to drop, but then I felt like I was peeing myself (I know, gross!). All I could think was she was pressing down on something that was causing me to lose bladder control. So I hobbled back into the bathroom and surprise, my water broke! I sat there for a second to take in what happened and then woke Mike up. We were both pretty shocked.
I called our doctor and doula and tried to labor at home for a little while ... but Mike was worried about not getting to the hospital in time (gotta love a first time dad). So we headed out around 8:30. Let me tell you, trying to get to the hospital AFTER your water breaks, NOT FUN! I swear, every time I got up or had a contraction, more water. So we used doggie pee pads on the car seat. Nice visual I'm sure - but I can assure you, it wasn't pretty.
When we arrived, I was 90% effaced and 1.5 cm dialated. Very disappointing. I thought this was going to take forever and I was already pretty uncomfortable.
I got moved into our delivery room around 10:30. They tried to put my IV in four times ... and each time, it "popped" (resulting in horrible bruises up and down both arms). They finally called an anesthesiologist in to do it.
At about 12:45, I was dilated to a four, 100% effaced and at station O. I was in a lot of pain, so I asked for the epidural. THANK GOODNESS! It came pretty quickly and by 1:20, I was feeling a bit of relief.
Unfortunately, that didn't last too long because I progressed pretty quickly. By 3:00, I was 9.5+ cm dilated.
At 3:22, I was absolutely miserable, telling Mike I was NEVER going to do this again. It wasn't really pain, but this HORRIBLE pressure. Definitely not something I had ever experienced before. I knew it was time.
Unfortunately, my doctor was busy delivering another baby and the dad in that room wasn't doing too well. So we had a resident - who was overseen by someone else, but honestly, at that point, I didn't even care. I just knew I wanted her out.
We started pushing shortly after. At one point, her heart rate dropped and I had to stop, got turned on my side and given oxygen. They stimulated her head and got it back up ... so I was able to keep going. After only 33 minutes of pushing, our sweet baby Averie arrived at 4:11.
Mike cried and I think I was still in shock that I actually did it. I got stiched up while Mike watched over her and soon enough, we were in recovery holding our little miracle.
I have a lot of great pics from the hospital ... just waiting to get them all from family. They are coming soon.
Other than that, I feel bad that I haven't talked with many of you - but this mom stuff is a lot of hard work. When you get a free moment, you really just want to curl up and relax. But Averie and I hope to see all of you soon ... at least once I get the ok to start driving again (still waiting on this foot to heal).
In the meantime, feel free to pop in for a visit, email or call. I love you all and thank everyone for the support and for convincing me to not immediately sign up for the c-section. I survived!
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Short and Sweet ...
As of yesterday, 70% effaced and 1 cm. dilated.
Orthopedic surgeon still won’t allow me to drive. Not until post baby. Full-on temper tantrum had. Supposed to be off crutches and using old lady cane by Monday.
And congrats to my girl Corona who went into labor last night. Still waiting on details of her new arrival.
Orthopedic surgeon still won’t allow me to drive. Not until post baby. Full-on temper tantrum had. Supposed to be off crutches and using old lady cane by Monday.
And congrats to my girl Corona who went into labor last night. Still waiting on details of her new arrival.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
First Visit to Beaumont
A quick little post ...
Had a bit of a scary afternoon yesterday. Was at work and all of a sudden had trouble with my vision. Really hard to explain, but couldn't see everything on my computer screen. Called the doctor and they told me to go to the hospital.
Upon getting there, they told me they were a little concerned about preeclampsia. My blood pressure was elevated and legs were swollen. Then, I have had the chronic pain in my right side (which I thought was a foot).
Blood pressure came down and I was able to go home, but now have to do a 24-hour urine collection to look for protein. Trust me, lots of fun when you are stuck in a wheelchair still and it has to be refrigerated. I know - TMI! But isn't that the point of this blog??
I go back to my ob/gyn today ... we'll see what they think. Best case, it's nothing - worst case, they decide to induce. So stay tuned.
On a positive note, everyone at Beaumont was extremely nice - so I feel good about delivering there when the big day comes.
And learned this morning that my mother-in-law was hospitalized yesterday with gall stones. She is having surgery as we speak to have it removed. Love you Mrs. H! Good luck - we're thinking about you!
Had a bit of a scary afternoon yesterday. Was at work and all of a sudden had trouble with my vision. Really hard to explain, but couldn't see everything on my computer screen. Called the doctor and they told me to go to the hospital.
Upon getting there, they told me they were a little concerned about preeclampsia. My blood pressure was elevated and legs were swollen. Then, I have had the chronic pain in my right side (which I thought was a foot).
Blood pressure came down and I was able to go home, but now have to do a 24-hour urine collection to look for protein. Trust me, lots of fun when you are stuck in a wheelchair still and it has to be refrigerated. I know - TMI! But isn't that the point of this blog??
I go back to my ob/gyn today ... we'll see what they think. Best case, it's nothing - worst case, they decide to induce. So stay tuned.
On a positive note, everyone at Beaumont was extremely nice - so I feel good about delivering there when the big day comes.
And learned this morning that my mother-in-law was hospitalized yesterday with gall stones. She is having surgery as we speak to have it removed. Love you Mrs. H! Good luck - we're thinking about you!
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Three Weeks and Counting!
As usual, there has been a lot going on … so it’s tough to figure out where to start.
First, let me say congratulations to my friends Maggie and Will on the birth of their BEAUTIFUL daughter Maisey. She came about two weeks early, but mom was amazing and had a natural child birth in just about six hours. I could NEVER do that – she is truly my HERO and I am so proud of her for accomplishing this. Maggie – what a wonderful mommy you are! You can check out her blog here and see amazing baby pics … I have to admit, she does a much better job than I do.
As for me, I am still wheelchair bound, which is extremely unexciting. I am so tired of having people wait on me, drive me places, etc. You would think it would be awesome to be pampered 24-7, but it really is hard feeling useless. Especially at the time when you want to be nesting and getting everything ready for baby’s arrival.
It has resulted in lots of tears … and lots of stress on my whole family who has been so wonderful taking care of me. I love them all more than they can ever know and truly appreciate everything they are doing.
As a special treat for you technical folks, here are the photos of my x-ray. I sort of had a Rachel and Ross Friends flashback when they tried to show me the breaks ("I can't see it"), but maybe you can!
Anyway, I think the plan is for me to try and take my first steps this Friday. I am hoping Mike’s sister, who is a physical therapist, will be able to stop by and help me with this. It’s definitely not something that I want to do on my own, because I know it is going to hurt like a mother (insert your choice of word here!). But I need to get myself a little mobile. Partly because it’s almost impossible for me to get my leg into a stir-up at the OB/GYN so they can check for dilation; and partly because if I have to hop to the bathroom one more time in the middle of the night, I might hurt someone! Wish me luck … and pray that I don’t need to pop one of the Vicodin. (For those of you who know me, I have no problem typically taking medication when I am in pain … but for sake of Baby H. I have been trying very hard to avoid!)
On the positive front, I had my second baby shower this weekend and got to get out of the house and spend some time with my favorite girls (photos to come soon). A special thank you to my mom and girlfriend Lauren for planning such a special night! And to my friend Lynn for taking photos and helping me manage all the gifts from my wheelchair. It was perfect and exactly what I needed.
To all of my friends who took time out of their Saturday night to spend it with me, I absolutely adore you. The night was full of laughs – as they prepared me for the joys of birth – and plenty of Pink Panty Pulldown was consumed (don’t ask!). Everyone was extremely generous and I am confident that we are well prepared for baby girl’s arrival … any time in the next five weeks.
It’s hard to believe that she is officially due on August 23rd – just about three weeks away. While I have been feeling pretty uncomfortable (ie., she loves to extend her foot directly into my rib cage almost all day and night) and it would be wonderful to have her here STAT, I am hoping she sits tight and gives my foot a few more weeks to heal. We are officially on the weekly doctor visit schedule, so I will be posting updates here on our progress. First “official” pelvic exam takes place on Thursday. Can’t wait! (Right, I am so not looking forward to this!)
First, let me say congratulations to my friends Maggie and Will on the birth of their BEAUTIFUL daughter Maisey. She came about two weeks early, but mom was amazing and had a natural child birth in just about six hours. I could NEVER do that – she is truly my HERO and I am so proud of her for accomplishing this. Maggie – what a wonderful mommy you are! You can check out her blog here and see amazing baby pics … I have to admit, she does a much better job than I do.
As for me, I am still wheelchair bound, which is extremely unexciting. I am so tired of having people wait on me, drive me places, etc. You would think it would be awesome to be pampered 24-7, but it really is hard feeling useless. Especially at the time when you want to be nesting and getting everything ready for baby’s arrival.
It has resulted in lots of tears … and lots of stress on my whole family who has been so wonderful taking care of me. I love them all more than they can ever know and truly appreciate everything they are doing.
As a special treat for you technical folks, here are the photos of my x-ray. I sort of had a Rachel and Ross Friends flashback when they tried to show me the breaks ("I can't see it"), but maybe you can!
Anyway, I think the plan is for me to try and take my first steps this Friday. I am hoping Mike’s sister, who is a physical therapist, will be able to stop by and help me with this. It’s definitely not something that I want to do on my own, because I know it is going to hurt like a mother (insert your choice of word here!). But I need to get myself a little mobile. Partly because it’s almost impossible for me to get my leg into a stir-up at the OB/GYN so they can check for dilation; and partly because if I have to hop to the bathroom one more time in the middle of the night, I might hurt someone! Wish me luck … and pray that I don’t need to pop one of the Vicodin. (For those of you who know me, I have no problem typically taking medication when I am in pain … but for sake of Baby H. I have been trying very hard to avoid!)
On the positive front, I had my second baby shower this weekend and got to get out of the house and spend some time with my favorite girls (photos to come soon). A special thank you to my mom and girlfriend Lauren for planning such a special night! And to my friend Lynn for taking photos and helping me manage all the gifts from my wheelchair. It was perfect and exactly what I needed.
To all of my friends who took time out of their Saturday night to spend it with me, I absolutely adore you. The night was full of laughs – as they prepared me for the joys of birth – and plenty of Pink Panty Pulldown was consumed (don’t ask!). Everyone was extremely generous and I am confident that we are well prepared for baby girl’s arrival … any time in the next five weeks.
It’s hard to believe that she is officially due on August 23rd – just about three weeks away. While I have been feeling pretty uncomfortable (ie., she loves to extend her foot directly into my rib cage almost all day and night) and it would be wonderful to have her here STAT, I am hoping she sits tight and gives my foot a few more weeks to heal. We are officially on the weekly doctor visit schedule, so I will be posting updates here on our progress. First “official” pelvic exam takes place on Thursday. Can’t wait! (Right, I am so not looking forward to this!)
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Where to Begin ...
Well, let’s just say it has been an interesting few days.
On Saturday, we finally started to put the nursery together (even though Mike had a pinched nerve and was pretty uncomfortable – what can I say, I work him hard!) We got the hutch and changing table put together, as well as the dresser. The crib was to be our project for Sunday.
Well late Saturday afternoon, we saw an older stray boxer dog that we tried to catch. He was afraid of people and was running away from us down the service drive for the freeway – which didn’t make me happy because I was so scared for him. So I told Mike we needed to stop chasing him so he could relax and hopefully move away from the road. I got in my car and found him in a parking lot on Groesbeck (another main road). Another man had stopped to try and catch him and I thought we had a chance. Well, a woman came running up yelling profanities at us to stop trying to catch her dog. She was extremely nasty, but I figured she was the owner and the dog was at least going home. So I left.
Well Sunday morning, Mike comes in the house and says the boxer is out again! I couldn’t believe it. So once again, we tried to catch him. Unfortunately, this time, I took a tumble and ended up breaking four metatarsals in my foot. Essentially, the top of my foot is broken about ½ day down on the base. Off we went to the hospital.
(My foot!)
I was so upset that I was in so much pain and we couldn’t even save the dog. Well – we come home and the dog is still laying where we tried to catch him under a tree. So Mike made it his mission to get this guy – partly because it was 95 degrees and the dog looked so dehydrated and needed help – but also because he wanted to give the owners a piece of his mind because of what happened to me.
Well – it was Mike vs. dog, and Mike finally won! The dog was so grateful for the water and food and we even brought him into the house where we laid on a sleeping bag in our kitchen. We finally got in touch with the owners who came to pick nine-year-old “Jacks” up. Well surprise – it was NOT the same owner from Saturday. So we figured the woman on Saturday was just trying to get a free dog – realized how old he was and the hip dysplasia – and then let him go. HEARTBREAKING!
(Jacks!)
The owners were extremely appreciative – especially the two little kids who he sleeps with every night. They even sent us flowers yesterday to say thank you. So while the foot pain is a little unbearable, it sort of helps make it worth it.
All I can ask is if you see a stray, please try and save it. So many people drove by us, no one stopped to help. People in our neighborhood told us they saw the dog all day Saturday, not one made an effort to try and rescue it. If you fail, that is okay … but you tried. I can’t tell you how much that dog loved Mike after he realized he just wanted to help. People can take care of themselves – animals can’t. They need us. Please consider helping out when you can.
Anyway – getting off my soap box now … I am completely laid up for a while. No walking until my next orthopedic surgeon appointment in ten days; no driving for a month. But I am headed back to work next week in a wheelchair. FABULOUS.
(My temporary device to get around thanks to Mike's dad!)
Also, not sure how this will impact my delivery – so that will be a question for the OB next week. My foot is expected to take 8 weeks to heal … how do you “push into your feet” when one is broken? I definitely don’t want to risk breaking it again. So that C-section that I thought I wanted before may now be my only option. But now, I got myself psyched up for delivering … so who knows.
Beyond all this – our Guinness had surgery last week to have a tumor removed. The vet had no idea what it was, so it was sent for a biopsy. I was having a really hard time with this, because I needed to know my little man was going to be around for our daughter. She is going to LOVE him … and I couldn’t even think about something being wrong with him. Well yesterday, we got the call – it was BENIGN! I broke down in tears. It made me truly believe in Karma, God … something! All I know was we saved a dog, and our dog was saved in return!
(My boo-boo, Guinness!)
Either way – I have some amazing stories to share with our little girl one day and I hope she gets her mommy’s love of animals. I am sure there will be much more news to share over the next week or so as we learn more from the doctors. Stay tuned!
On Saturday, we finally started to put the nursery together (even though Mike had a pinched nerve and was pretty uncomfortable – what can I say, I work him hard!) We got the hutch and changing table put together, as well as the dresser. The crib was to be our project for Sunday.
Well late Saturday afternoon, we saw an older stray boxer dog that we tried to catch. He was afraid of people and was running away from us down the service drive for the freeway – which didn’t make me happy because I was so scared for him. So I told Mike we needed to stop chasing him so he could relax and hopefully move away from the road. I got in my car and found him in a parking lot on Groesbeck (another main road). Another man had stopped to try and catch him and I thought we had a chance. Well, a woman came running up yelling profanities at us to stop trying to catch her dog. She was extremely nasty, but I figured she was the owner and the dog was at least going home. So I left.
Well Sunday morning, Mike comes in the house and says the boxer is out again! I couldn’t believe it. So once again, we tried to catch him. Unfortunately, this time, I took a tumble and ended up breaking four metatarsals in my foot. Essentially, the top of my foot is broken about ½ day down on the base. Off we went to the hospital.
(My foot!)
I was so upset that I was in so much pain and we couldn’t even save the dog. Well – we come home and the dog is still laying where we tried to catch him under a tree. So Mike made it his mission to get this guy – partly because it was 95 degrees and the dog looked so dehydrated and needed help – but also because he wanted to give the owners a piece of his mind because of what happened to me.
Well – it was Mike vs. dog, and Mike finally won! The dog was so grateful for the water and food and we even brought him into the house where we laid on a sleeping bag in our kitchen. We finally got in touch with the owners who came to pick nine-year-old “Jacks” up. Well surprise – it was NOT the same owner from Saturday. So we figured the woman on Saturday was just trying to get a free dog – realized how old he was and the hip dysplasia – and then let him go. HEARTBREAKING!
(Jacks!)
The owners were extremely appreciative – especially the two little kids who he sleeps with every night. They even sent us flowers yesterday to say thank you. So while the foot pain is a little unbearable, it sort of helps make it worth it.
All I can ask is if you see a stray, please try and save it. So many people drove by us, no one stopped to help. People in our neighborhood told us they saw the dog all day Saturday, not one made an effort to try and rescue it. If you fail, that is okay … but you tried. I can’t tell you how much that dog loved Mike after he realized he just wanted to help. People can take care of themselves – animals can’t. They need us. Please consider helping out when you can.
Anyway – getting off my soap box now … I am completely laid up for a while. No walking until my next orthopedic surgeon appointment in ten days; no driving for a month. But I am headed back to work next week in a wheelchair. FABULOUS.
(My temporary device to get around thanks to Mike's dad!)
Also, not sure how this will impact my delivery – so that will be a question for the OB next week. My foot is expected to take 8 weeks to heal … how do you “push into your feet” when one is broken? I definitely don’t want to risk breaking it again. So that C-section that I thought I wanted before may now be my only option. But now, I got myself psyched up for delivering … so who knows.
Beyond all this – our Guinness had surgery last week to have a tumor removed. The vet had no idea what it was, so it was sent for a biopsy. I was having a really hard time with this, because I needed to know my little man was going to be around for our daughter. She is going to LOVE him … and I couldn’t even think about something being wrong with him. Well yesterday, we got the call – it was BENIGN! I broke down in tears. It made me truly believe in Karma, God … something! All I know was we saved a dog, and our dog was saved in return!
(My boo-boo, Guinness!)
Either way – I have some amazing stories to share with our little girl one day and I hope she gets her mommy’s love of animals. I am sure there will be much more news to share over the next week or so as we learn more from the doctors. Stay tuned!
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Showered with Love
I wanted to start by saying thank you to Mike's mom, and all my sister-in-law's (Amy, Susan and Cheri) for the amazingly beautiful shower they threw for us late last month. Everything was lady-bug themed and they obviously worked very hard to make the day special for us. We love you all!
Throughout the shower, we got a ton of great stuff and we are on our way to being ready for baby girl's arrival! Everything from our stroller, video monitor, car seat, pack-n-play, diaper bag, clothes, books and more.
We also got to very special gifts that are among our favorite! One was a special drawing by Sabryn and framed with help from her brothers Holden and Landon! We can't wait to hang it in the nursery - it is so beautiful! And to think, Sabryn isn't even a teenager yet! (The picture I took of it below really doesn't even do it justice!)
We also got an adorable ladybug chair from Mallory, Kara, Sara and Alyssa! I think it will be one of baby girl's favorites as she grows up and I am so looking forward to seeing her use it for the very first time!
And Mike's mom gave him a handmade quilt from his Aunt Rose that she has kept all of these years. It is a Hey Diddle Diddle theme and let's just say Mike got pretty emotional over this one! It was truly a gift from the heart and one we will always treasure.
Here are some other pics from the amazing day! And yes - if you are looking at my hair and saying WTF, those are hair extensions! My friend Annie, who has been doing my hair, tried to help me feel pretty that day! As you know, the extra weight hasn't been helping my self-esteem, so we put in some long flowing locks! Don't worry - I am back to normal now!
Other than that, we are almost ready to start putting the nursery together. We should be getting it started next weekend. Pics will be coming soon! I am also washing all the baby clothes and packing my suitcase this week ... you know, just in case!
Throughout the shower, we got a ton of great stuff and we are on our way to being ready for baby girl's arrival! Everything from our stroller, video monitor, car seat, pack-n-play, diaper bag, clothes, books and more.
We also got to very special gifts that are among our favorite! One was a special drawing by Sabryn and framed with help from her brothers Holden and Landon! We can't wait to hang it in the nursery - it is so beautiful! And to think, Sabryn isn't even a teenager yet! (The picture I took of it below really doesn't even do it justice!)
We also got an adorable ladybug chair from Mallory, Kara, Sara and Alyssa! I think it will be one of baby girl's favorites as she grows up and I am so looking forward to seeing her use it for the very first time!
And Mike's mom gave him a handmade quilt from his Aunt Rose that she has kept all of these years. It is a Hey Diddle Diddle theme and let's just say Mike got pretty emotional over this one! It was truly a gift from the heart and one we will always treasure.
Here are some other pics from the amazing day! And yes - if you are looking at my hair and saying WTF, those are hair extensions! My friend Annie, who has been doing my hair, tried to help me feel pretty that day! As you know, the extra weight hasn't been helping my self-esteem, so we put in some long flowing locks! Don't worry - I am back to normal now!
Other than that, we are almost ready to start putting the nursery together. We should be getting it started next weekend. Pics will be coming soon! I am also washing all the baby clothes and packing my suitcase this week ... you know, just in case!
Friday, June 3, 2011
Third Trimester
It’s official … we are finally in the third trimester! YEAH! Just over three more months to go! And I am happy to report that things are finally moving along with the house / nursery.
Let’s begin with the windows. The new ones have been installed (well mostly) but the events of the day were a bit of a nightmare. Mike was home to oversee the process … and to learn how to do it so if we ever needed to install them again that he could handle it. The day started by one of the installers stealing about 15-20 of Mike’s Adderall pills. Correction – Mike is 90% confident that the guy did. He mentioned it to the supervisor, but of course, the pills were never replaced and no one followed up with us. So note to everyone out there, if you have anyone doing work at your house, hide the good meds!
Then, they went to put the windows in and three of them were wrong – they were double hung instead of sliders (which is what we ordered). So needless to say, they put them in because our old ones had already been ripped out and new ones are on order, so we will be going through this again in about 2-3 more weeks.
Finally, the guys were there working until 11:00. Don’t they know that pregnant women are usually in bed by 9:30??? So after they left, I have the fun of cleaning up the massive mess – because Lord knows I can’t sleep knowing how trashed the house is. I think I turned in about 12:30 that night. But overall they look great and I am happy they are done!
After that, the painting commenced. As I mentioned previously, my mom’s boyfriend (and mom) worked hard to turn the room into a beautiful pastel green and pink haven just perfect for our princess. Thanks to both of them for working hard these past few days – it looks great. We just need to paint or wallpaper the inside of the closet – which will be a job for mom and me starting tonight.
The last major remaining house repair is the flooring – and that leads me to the question of the day. Carpet or pergo? There are valid reasons for both and I am really stumped. If we order new carpet, it needs to be a dark white / light cream and obviously we are considering the Stainmaster brand because of the baby and dogs. But, for those of you who know (and love) our dogs, you know that from time to time they puke and have accidents on the floor. Pretty sure that Stainmaster can only handle so much. And white, well – isn’t that just setting you up for failure?
The other option is Pergo flooring. Much easier to clean, more hygienic for babies (allergens not being trapped in carpets, etc.) and will look nice, but when Baby Girl H. learns how to walk, I am envisioning lots of bumps and bruises – along with visits from CPS. Not to mention it’s a little colder in those pleasant Michigan winter months. Obviously, we would put throw rugs down, but you never know if that will be enough.
Does anyone have any thoughts or opinions on this? All comments and feedback welcome for this new mommy-to-be.
Finally, I got the pleasure of visiting the BEAUTIFUL baby boy of our friends Chris and Alex last week. Alex, who was stunning to begin with, already looks amazing and gives me hope for losing some of this pregnancy weight. But of course, I freaked out a little when I got to hold him. I am starting to really panic a bit about this being a mommy thing. Can I do it? Am I going to be a horrible mom? Is she going to love me? There is so much to learn and the anxiety is slowly creeping its way in.
Thank goodness for all of you wonderful people who I am going to be leaning on to help me through.
Let’s begin with the windows. The new ones have been installed (well mostly) but the events of the day were a bit of a nightmare. Mike was home to oversee the process … and to learn how to do it so if we ever needed to install them again that he could handle it. The day started by one of the installers stealing about 15-20 of Mike’s Adderall pills. Correction – Mike is 90% confident that the guy did. He mentioned it to the supervisor, but of course, the pills were never replaced and no one followed up with us. So note to everyone out there, if you have anyone doing work at your house, hide the good meds!
Then, they went to put the windows in and three of them were wrong – they were double hung instead of sliders (which is what we ordered). So needless to say, they put them in because our old ones had already been ripped out and new ones are on order, so we will be going through this again in about 2-3 more weeks.
Finally, the guys were there working until 11:00. Don’t they know that pregnant women are usually in bed by 9:30??? So after they left, I have the fun of cleaning up the massive mess – because Lord knows I can’t sleep knowing how trashed the house is. I think I turned in about 12:30 that night. But overall they look great and I am happy they are done!
After that, the painting commenced. As I mentioned previously, my mom’s boyfriend (and mom) worked hard to turn the room into a beautiful pastel green and pink haven just perfect for our princess. Thanks to both of them for working hard these past few days – it looks great. We just need to paint or wallpaper the inside of the closet – which will be a job for mom and me starting tonight.
The last major remaining house repair is the flooring – and that leads me to the question of the day. Carpet or pergo? There are valid reasons for both and I am really stumped. If we order new carpet, it needs to be a dark white / light cream and obviously we are considering the Stainmaster brand because of the baby and dogs. But, for those of you who know (and love) our dogs, you know that from time to time they puke and have accidents on the floor. Pretty sure that Stainmaster can only handle so much. And white, well – isn’t that just setting you up for failure?
The other option is Pergo flooring. Much easier to clean, more hygienic for babies (allergens not being trapped in carpets, etc.) and will look nice, but when Baby Girl H. learns how to walk, I am envisioning lots of bumps and bruises – along with visits from CPS. Not to mention it’s a little colder in those pleasant Michigan winter months. Obviously, we would put throw rugs down, but you never know if that will be enough.
Does anyone have any thoughts or opinions on this? All comments and feedback welcome for this new mommy-to-be.
Finally, I got the pleasure of visiting the BEAUTIFUL baby boy of our friends Chris and Alex last week. Alex, who was stunning to begin with, already looks amazing and gives me hope for losing some of this pregnancy weight. But of course, I freaked out a little when I got to hold him. I am starting to really panic a bit about this being a mommy thing. Can I do it? Am I going to be a horrible mom? Is she going to love me? There is so much to learn and the anxiety is slowly creeping its way in.
Thank goodness for all of you wonderful people who I am going to be leaning on to help me through.
Monday, May 23, 2011
So Much to Learn and Do ... So Little Time
One minute, I feel like so much has happened the last few weeks … and the next, like there is still so much to do and learn. Here is a brief recap.
As you know, I went in for my glucose test on the 16th. Let’s just say that the “flat orange pop” as the doctor’s office so politely describes, actually tastes a lot worse.
Add to the fact that you have to get it all down in five minutes, not any better. Took all of my will power to keep it down for an hour, but I succeeded. I haven’t heard back on the results yet, which I want to take as a good sign. But I should also note that I am now on bi-weekly doctor visits, so they might just be waiting to share the news for my next appointment on June 1st. I will let you know!
Our new windows are also being installed today – so I hope I come home to a brand new house! I am sure they are going to look great and it’s giving me hope that we might actually have everything ready by the time baby girl gets here. The nursery room painting also starts later this week, so it’s nice to see that things are really coming together.
Finally, we had our birthing class on Saturday. It was great and I learned a lot … probably more than I ever wanted to know if I am being honest. Let’s just say that I left even more terrified about this birthing process than I was before. I still can’t comprehend something that big coming out of something that small.
It was great for Mike too … especially seeing him practice breathing techniques. I didn’t necessarily need him doing it in my face, but at least he participated, right?
But hearing things about effacement, dilation, mucus plugs, Braxton-Hicks – and seeing pictures of what this whole birth process does to your body, well – not so appealing. As a first timer here, I am so happy about having a doula. I think she will be instrumental in trying to help keep both Mike and me calm – at a time when I know that I am going to absolutely freak out. Especially during the early labor when you are encouraged to stay at home.
Good thing that when my doctor asked me at my last appointment if I had any thoughts about my birth “plan”, I reminded her to make a note in my chart that said “Very open to c-section!” I then told her to put gold starts around it, draw flowers, anything to make sure that whatever doctor from the practice is on call for me, they don’t miss it!
Anyway, one of the biggest things that came up is that Mike really wants to watch our little one being born. Obviously, for all of you who REALLY know me, this totally creeps me out. First, I am COMPLETELY private and I don’t want ANYONE in that delivery room, much less my husband watching my junk stretch out to the size of a football field. Second, I think once a guy sees what happens to your body down there during child birth, well – they never can really see you as attractive anymore. Heck, even after seeing the pictures in class, I don’t think I could ever look at it the same way again either!
I am all for letting him cut the cord and that good stuff – as long as he stays up towards my head. But this has truly caused a bit of stress between us … because we both strongly have our opinions. So to help, I want to hear yours! Please take the survey and let me know your thoughts.
Please keep in mind that I totally get that it would be something cool for him to see and I understand the emotional side of it – I really do. But I ask that when voting, you also consider me and my extreme terror. Is knowing that he will be down there going to stress me out even more and slow down the process (I heard anxiety can do that)? UGH!
Anyway – thanks for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate them.
As you know, I went in for my glucose test on the 16th. Let’s just say that the “flat orange pop” as the doctor’s office so politely describes, actually tastes a lot worse.
Add to the fact that you have to get it all down in five minutes, not any better. Took all of my will power to keep it down for an hour, but I succeeded. I haven’t heard back on the results yet, which I want to take as a good sign. But I should also note that I am now on bi-weekly doctor visits, so they might just be waiting to share the news for my next appointment on June 1st. I will let you know!
Our new windows are also being installed today – so I hope I come home to a brand new house! I am sure they are going to look great and it’s giving me hope that we might actually have everything ready by the time baby girl gets here. The nursery room painting also starts later this week, so it’s nice to see that things are really coming together.
Finally, we had our birthing class on Saturday. It was great and I learned a lot … probably more than I ever wanted to know if I am being honest. Let’s just say that I left even more terrified about this birthing process than I was before. I still can’t comprehend something that big coming out of something that small.
It was great for Mike too … especially seeing him practice breathing techniques. I didn’t necessarily need him doing it in my face, but at least he participated, right?
But hearing things about effacement, dilation, mucus plugs, Braxton-Hicks – and seeing pictures of what this whole birth process does to your body, well – not so appealing. As a first timer here, I am so happy about having a doula. I think she will be instrumental in trying to help keep both Mike and me calm – at a time when I know that I am going to absolutely freak out. Especially during the early labor when you are encouraged to stay at home.
Good thing that when my doctor asked me at my last appointment if I had any thoughts about my birth “plan”, I reminded her to make a note in my chart that said “Very open to c-section!” I then told her to put gold starts around it, draw flowers, anything to make sure that whatever doctor from the practice is on call for me, they don’t miss it!
Anyway, one of the biggest things that came up is that Mike really wants to watch our little one being born. Obviously, for all of you who REALLY know me, this totally creeps me out. First, I am COMPLETELY private and I don’t want ANYONE in that delivery room, much less my husband watching my junk stretch out to the size of a football field. Second, I think once a guy sees what happens to your body down there during child birth, well – they never can really see you as attractive anymore. Heck, even after seeing the pictures in class, I don’t think I could ever look at it the same way again either!
I am all for letting him cut the cord and that good stuff – as long as he stays up towards my head. But this has truly caused a bit of stress between us … because we both strongly have our opinions. So to help, I want to hear yours! Please take the survey and let me know your thoughts.
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Please keep in mind that I totally get that it would be something cool for him to see and I understand the emotional side of it – I really do. But I ask that when voting, you also consider me and my extreme terror. Is knowing that he will be down there going to stress me out even more and slow down the process (I heard anxiety can do that)? UGH!
Anyway – thanks for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate them.
Friday, May 13, 2011
I Thought I Posted This Wednesday ...
(I actually posted this the other day … but it doesn’t look like it made it up there … hmmm)
Sorry that I haven’t been staying up on my writing as much … it’s been a busy week.
I officially started my new position. I love the people and it’s a great company, but the industry is so different from child care. A lot of what I do is focused on automotive, aerospace, general industry, etc. So while I understand it from my agency days, it’s going to take a while to ramp back up. But I also really miss all of the people I worked with. Well, some of them! And they know who they are.
Other than that, we are finally starting to make some headway with all this baby stuff. We ordered new windows for the house and I am hoping those will be installed sometime around the week of May 23rd. I also picked up some paint samples and decided on the colors. And my mom’s boyfriend will be doing the painting thanks to hubby working on his car! Labor for labor!
Next on the list is trying to select carpet … with two dogs and a new baby on the way, can you say StainMaster?
I also finished registering at Buy Buy Baby thanks to my mom and girlfriend Lauren. Since all of this stuff is new to me, I thought it made sense to take a mom who can tell me what stuff is good, what is crap, and what I really need.
Oh – and the baby furniture arrived. Click here to see a pic of what we got. It’s black to match the lady bug theme we are going with and of course, I needed the WHOLE set. While we haven’t assembled it yet (because it just doesn’t make sense to do that until we get the basics done), we did inspect it and it looks great! I really am looking forward to putting it up. Thanks to my mommy for buying all of it for us – you are the bestest!
I also can’t forget to thank all of my great friends – Amy, Lauren and Jennifer – who have shared everything from maternity clothes to baby essentials to adorable girlie outfits. I really am blessed to have you in my life! THANK YOU!
Finally, the baby showers are also planned! Thank you to Mike’s family for throwing us one on June 25th and to Lauren from hosting one for my friends on July 30th! I am really looking forward to seeing everyone – especially those of you who haven’t seen me with the “pregnancy glow” yet!
And for everyone who has been driving me crazy for a belly photo, here you go!
I am still struggling with the weight gain, but at least now I am looking pregnant and not just fat. Also, I am happy to say that my body seems to have adjusted to this pregnancy thing a little better and I haven’t puked since the cruise. YEAH! The worst part now is fighting this head cold I have had for a while – but at least I can breathe and sleep now!
We have our baby class on May 21st! That should be interesting and I’ll be sure to post all of the funny details on how Mike does! He’s going to be a great dad … but I think we both have a LOT to learn!
Sorry that I haven’t been staying up on my writing as much … it’s been a busy week.
I officially started my new position. I love the people and it’s a great company, but the industry is so different from child care. A lot of what I do is focused on automotive, aerospace, general industry, etc. So while I understand it from my agency days, it’s going to take a while to ramp back up. But I also really miss all of the people I worked with. Well, some of them! And they know who they are.
Other than that, we are finally starting to make some headway with all this baby stuff. We ordered new windows for the house and I am hoping those will be installed sometime around the week of May 23rd. I also picked up some paint samples and decided on the colors. And my mom’s boyfriend will be doing the painting thanks to hubby working on his car! Labor for labor!
Next on the list is trying to select carpet … with two dogs and a new baby on the way, can you say StainMaster?
I also finished registering at Buy Buy Baby thanks to my mom and girlfriend Lauren. Since all of this stuff is new to me, I thought it made sense to take a mom who can tell me what stuff is good, what is crap, and what I really need.
Oh – and the baby furniture arrived. Click here to see a pic of what we got. It’s black to match the lady bug theme we are going with and of course, I needed the WHOLE set. While we haven’t assembled it yet (because it just doesn’t make sense to do that until we get the basics done), we did inspect it and it looks great! I really am looking forward to putting it up. Thanks to my mommy for buying all of it for us – you are the bestest!
I also can’t forget to thank all of my great friends – Amy, Lauren and Jennifer – who have shared everything from maternity clothes to baby essentials to adorable girlie outfits. I really am blessed to have you in my life! THANK YOU!
Finally, the baby showers are also planned! Thank you to Mike’s family for throwing us one on June 25th and to Lauren from hosting one for my friends on July 30th! I am really looking forward to seeing everyone – especially those of you who haven’t seen me with the “pregnancy glow” yet!
And for everyone who has been driving me crazy for a belly photo, here you go!
I am still struggling with the weight gain, but at least now I am looking pregnant and not just fat. Also, I am happy to say that my body seems to have adjusted to this pregnancy thing a little better and I haven’t puked since the cruise. YEAH! The worst part now is fighting this head cold I have had for a while – but at least I can breathe and sleep now!
We have our baby class on May 21st! That should be interesting and I’ll be sure to post all of the funny details on how Mike does! He’s going to be a great dad … but I think we both have a LOT to learn!
Cravings Galore
For those of you who REALLY know me, I have always had a bit of sweet tooth. Dessert has always been my favorite part of a meal … which I think personally drives Mike crazy.
But in the last few weeks, I have developed an insatiable appetite for ice cream, milk shakes and my absolute new favorite – Biggby’s Frozen Hot Chocolate. (As such, if you are in the area and want to drop one off, this little bundle of joy inside me would greatly appreciate it!).
However, this story cannot be told without explaining my ban on Dunkin’ Donuts. About two weeks ago, I received a coupon in the mail for Dunkin’ Donuts. Of course, I had to peruse the whole thing and low and behold, there is a coupon for a .99 frozen hot chocolate – their new product. Well, baby girl wanted one IMMEDIATELTY, so out I went with coupon in hand to my local DD … in the rain! Upon arriving, the clerk tells me that they won’t be carrying it until June. WHAT??? I essentially break down into tears in the store horrified and had to instead drive over to Wendy’s for a Frosty to crave my need.
With Frosty in hand (and belly), I then preceded to email Dunkin' Donuts and post on their Facebook page. NO RESPONSE! They are dead to me now!
Anyway, thanks to friends and old co-workers, I learned that Biggby carries a frozen hot chocolate. And they can even make it with caramel and marshmallow flavoring added. Can you say yummy in my big a*s tummy?
The way I see it, it really is unfortunate for DD – as they would have pretty much had a daily customer for the next four months or so. Congrats to Biggby for getting my business and taking care of “All the pregnant ladies, all the pregnant ladies” … my new version of Beyonce’s song!
PS. My gestational diabetes testing is on Monday. Who wants to bet I fail and my frozen hot chocolate dreams vanish right before my eyes?
But in the last few weeks, I have developed an insatiable appetite for ice cream, milk shakes and my absolute new favorite – Biggby’s Frozen Hot Chocolate. (As such, if you are in the area and want to drop one off, this little bundle of joy inside me would greatly appreciate it!).
However, this story cannot be told without explaining my ban on Dunkin’ Donuts. About two weeks ago, I received a coupon in the mail for Dunkin’ Donuts. Of course, I had to peruse the whole thing and low and behold, there is a coupon for a .99 frozen hot chocolate – their new product. Well, baby girl wanted one IMMEDIATELTY, so out I went with coupon in hand to my local DD … in the rain! Upon arriving, the clerk tells me that they won’t be carrying it until June. WHAT??? I essentially break down into tears in the store horrified and had to instead drive over to Wendy’s for a Frosty to crave my need.
With Frosty in hand (and belly), I then preceded to email Dunkin' Donuts and post on their Facebook page. NO RESPONSE! They are dead to me now!
Anyway, thanks to friends and old co-workers, I learned that Biggby carries a frozen hot chocolate. And they can even make it with caramel and marshmallow flavoring added. Can you say yummy in my big a*s tummy?
The way I see it, it really is unfortunate for DD – as they would have pretty much had a daily customer for the next four months or so. Congrats to Biggby for getting my business and taking care of “All the pregnant ladies, all the pregnant ladies” … my new version of Beyonce’s song!
PS. My gestational diabetes testing is on Monday. Who wants to bet I fail and my frozen hot chocolate dreams vanish right before my eyes?
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Catching Up
Sorry that I haven’t been staying up on my writing as much … it’s been a busy couple weeks.
I officially started my new position. I love the people and it’s a great company, but the industry isn’t nearly as exciting as child care – there was always something happening there. A lot of what I do is focused on automotive, aerospace, general industry, etc. So while I understand it from my agency days, it’s going to take a while to ramp back up.
But I also really miss all of the people I worked with. Well, some of them! And they know who they are.
Other than that, we are finally starting to make some headway with all this baby stuff. We ordered new windows for the house and it sounds like they should be installed around the week of the 23rd. I also got some paint samples and tried them out on the wall. Baby girl’s room will be either light pink, light green or a combination of both - thanks to Mom's boyfriend doing the painting (part of payment for Mike working on his car). Next on the list is trying to select carpet!
I also finally got to register at Buy Buy Baby thanks to my girl Lauren and my mom. Since all of this stuff is new to me, I thought it made sense to take someone who can tell me what stuff is good, what is crap, and what I really need.
Oh – and the baby furniture arrived. Click here to see what we ordered … and of course, I got all of the pieces. Thanks to my wonderful mommy for buying it for us!
It’s black to match the lady bug theme we are going with. While we haven’t assembled it yet (because it just doesn’t make sense to do that until we get the basics done), we did inspect it and it looks great! I really am looking forward to putting it up.
Finally, the baby showers are also planned! Thank you to Mike’s family for throwing us one on June 25th and to Lauren for hosting one for my friends on July 30th! I am really looking forward to seeing everyone – especially those of you who haven’t seen me with the “pregnancy glow” yet!
And for everyone who has been driving me crazy for a belly photo, here you go!
I am still struggling with the weight gain, but at least now I am looking pregnant now and not just fat. Also, I am happy to say that my body seems to have adjusted to this pregnancy thing a little better and I haven’t puked since the cruise. YEAH! The worst part now is fighting this head cold I have had for a while – but at least I can breathe and sleep now! Well – except for the fact that baby girl has become extremely active and truly enjoys kicking around 3:00 in the morning. I am hoping she doesn’t have Mike’s ADHD, but let me tell you – that little peanut likes to move! Maybe she just has his love for dancing!
I also can’t forget to send a big thank you to Lauren, Jennifer and Amy for all of the great stuff they have sent my way – from maternity clothes to baby items to the cutest little girl clothes. I am blessed to have such great friends to take care of me and would never get through this without them.
We have our birthing and baby care class on May 21st! That should be interesting and I’ll be sure to post all of the funny details on how Mike does! He’s going to be a great dad … but I think we both have a LOT to learn!
I officially started my new position. I love the people and it’s a great company, but the industry isn’t nearly as exciting as child care – there was always something happening there. A lot of what I do is focused on automotive, aerospace, general industry, etc. So while I understand it from my agency days, it’s going to take a while to ramp back up.
But I also really miss all of the people I worked with. Well, some of them! And they know who they are.
Other than that, we are finally starting to make some headway with all this baby stuff. We ordered new windows for the house and it sounds like they should be installed around the week of the 23rd. I also got some paint samples and tried them out on the wall. Baby girl’s room will be either light pink, light green or a combination of both - thanks to Mom's boyfriend doing the painting (part of payment for Mike working on his car). Next on the list is trying to select carpet!
I also finally got to register at Buy Buy Baby thanks to my girl Lauren and my mom. Since all of this stuff is new to me, I thought it made sense to take someone who can tell me what stuff is good, what is crap, and what I really need.
Oh – and the baby furniture arrived. Click here to see what we ordered … and of course, I got all of the pieces. Thanks to my wonderful mommy for buying it for us!
It’s black to match the lady bug theme we are going with. While we haven’t assembled it yet (because it just doesn’t make sense to do that until we get the basics done), we did inspect it and it looks great! I really am looking forward to putting it up.
Finally, the baby showers are also planned! Thank you to Mike’s family for throwing us one on June 25th and to Lauren for hosting one for my friends on July 30th! I am really looking forward to seeing everyone – especially those of you who haven’t seen me with the “pregnancy glow” yet!
And for everyone who has been driving me crazy for a belly photo, here you go!
I am still struggling with the weight gain, but at least now I am looking pregnant now and not just fat. Also, I am happy to say that my body seems to have adjusted to this pregnancy thing a little better and I haven’t puked since the cruise. YEAH! The worst part now is fighting this head cold I have had for a while – but at least I can breathe and sleep now! Well – except for the fact that baby girl has become extremely active and truly enjoys kicking around 3:00 in the morning. I am hoping she doesn’t have Mike’s ADHD, but let me tell you – that little peanut likes to move! Maybe she just has his love for dancing!
I also can’t forget to send a big thank you to Lauren, Jennifer and Amy for all of the great stuff they have sent my way – from maternity clothes to baby items to the cutest little girl clothes. I am blessed to have such great friends to take care of me and would never get through this without them.
We have our birthing and baby care class on May 21st! That should be interesting and I’ll be sure to post all of the funny details on how Mike does! He’s going to be a great dad … but I think we both have a LOT to learn!
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Back from Vacation
I know it has been a while since my last post – but I am finally back from vacation and have been able to find the time to write an update!
The cruise itself was great! We had beautiful weather, an awesome room and got to visit two islands we have never been to – Belize and Honduras. I was also able to muster up the courage to rock a bikini two of the days … and let’s just say baby girl probably has a nice little tan now!
We also swam with the stingrays in Grand Cayman. Here’s a picture!
Beyond that, all is going well with our little peanut. I can finally feel her moving all around. At the beginning, it was a little creepy – but I have found that I get really excited now every time I feel her kick or punch.
I keep hoping Mike will get to feel her soon … but I think he’s getting tired of me putting his hand on my belly and being disappointed. It’s gotta be any day now!
Went in for a check-up on Monday and baby is in the 50th percentile – which is a-ok by me. The smaller she is, hopefully the easier she will come out! I have to do the gestational diabetes test next time, so here’s praying I don’t have to give up any of my goodies. Will be sure to keep you updated.
Oh – and since I don’t have enough going on in my life right now, I am excited to say that I am starting a new job! I know what you are thinking, she’s finally having a baby and she is leaving a child care company … that makes no sense! But trust me, it’s a good decision and a healthy one for me. I am looking forward to the new challenge ahead and will let you know how it’s going. I officially start on Monday!
Other than that, our baby furniture arrived – so it’s time to get down to business on the nursery! Wish us luck!
New belly pic coming soon!
The cruise itself was great! We had beautiful weather, an awesome room and got to visit two islands we have never been to – Belize and Honduras. I was also able to muster up the courage to rock a bikini two of the days … and let’s just say baby girl probably has a nice little tan now!
We also swam with the stingrays in Grand Cayman. Here’s a picture!
Beyond that, all is going well with our little peanut. I can finally feel her moving all around. At the beginning, it was a little creepy – but I have found that I get really excited now every time I feel her kick or punch.
I keep hoping Mike will get to feel her soon … but I think he’s getting tired of me putting his hand on my belly and being disappointed. It’s gotta be any day now!
Went in for a check-up on Monday and baby is in the 50th percentile – which is a-ok by me. The smaller she is, hopefully the easier she will come out! I have to do the gestational diabetes test next time, so here’s praying I don’t have to give up any of my goodies. Will be sure to keep you updated.
Oh – and since I don’t have enough going on in my life right now, I am excited to say that I am starting a new job! I know what you are thinking, she’s finally having a baby and she is leaving a child care company … that makes no sense! But trust me, it’s a good decision and a healthy one for me. I am looking forward to the new challenge ahead and will let you know how it’s going. I officially start on Monday!
Other than that, our baby furniture arrived – so it’s time to get down to business on the nursery! Wish us luck!
New belly pic coming soon!
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Here a Flutter, There a Flutter ….
I am happy to say that last night, I felt baby girl move for the first time. At least that is what I think I felt! Since I am a newbie, it is a little hard to know for sure. It was very cool and sort of freaky all at the same time … but probably something I will never forget.
I was taking a bath reading a pregnancy book (because what else do you read during these 40 weeks!) and just couldn’t concentrate. Something felt weird. So I put the book down and just put my hands on my belly. After a couple minutes, I realized that what I was feeling was baby girl moving around. Sort of felt like she was doing somersaults in there for lack of a better word. Clearly, I’m sure she is not already a gymnast, but that is the best way I can describe it. Then, I didn’t want to move cause I was afraid I wouldn’t feel her anymore. It really was pretty awesome.
After that, I sort of came to the realization that all I have really done in this blog is complain about how sick she has made me and how fat I am getting. Well, even with all of the grief the first half of pregnancy has caused me, I really couldn’t be more excited to meet our little peanut!
I absolutely adore her already and truly believe she is going to grow up to be every man’s dream – a little diva princess like her momma with all of the cool tomboy traits that daddy is going to instill in her, like fishing and snowmobiling!
So one day when she is old enough to read this blog, I want her to know that I (and Mike too) loved her from the moment we knew she was coming. For all of you parents, you already know what an amazing feeling it is to be a mom or dad … but I am sure you remember your first time. Every day is such a miracle and a blessing – even with all of the other stuff that comes along with it!
I was taking a bath reading a pregnancy book (because what else do you read during these 40 weeks!) and just couldn’t concentrate. Something felt weird. So I put the book down and just put my hands on my belly. After a couple minutes, I realized that what I was feeling was baby girl moving around. Sort of felt like she was doing somersaults in there for lack of a better word. Clearly, I’m sure she is not already a gymnast, but that is the best way I can describe it. Then, I didn’t want to move cause I was afraid I wouldn’t feel her anymore. It really was pretty awesome.
After that, I sort of came to the realization that all I have really done in this blog is complain about how sick she has made me and how fat I am getting. Well, even with all of the grief the first half of pregnancy has caused me, I really couldn’t be more excited to meet our little peanut!
I absolutely adore her already and truly believe she is going to grow up to be every man’s dream – a little diva princess like her momma with all of the cool tomboy traits that daddy is going to instill in her, like fishing and snowmobiling!
So one day when she is old enough to read this blog, I want her to know that I (and Mike too) loved her from the moment we knew she was coming. For all of you parents, you already know what an amazing feeling it is to be a mom or dad … but I am sure you remember your first time. Every day is such a miracle and a blessing – even with all of the other stuff that comes along with it!
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
It's A ...
Well, yesterday was the big day! And I am surprised to say it’s a girl! Why am I surprised? I had a dream Sunday night that it was a boy. Literally, the whole ultrasound played out in my head and we learned it was a boy. I even woke up Monday morning saying, “Babe, we’re having a boy. I know it … it’s a mother’s intuition.” So much for that crap!
The technician said to us, “Do you see those two things?” At that moment, I knew she was talking about a pair of balls and it had to be a boy. Nope, she goes on to say “Those are the lips of the labia forming!” Wow – way to share the news in a technical format!
Either way, I was elated! Mike – well, he’s getting to used the idea. But I know that Baby Girl Hellebuyck is going to be a big ‘ole Daddy’s girl and she is going to have him wrapped around her little finger in no time at all!
After that, mom and I headed off to Buy, Buy Baby and Babies ‘R Us. Overwhelmed doesn’t quite explain how we felt. There were literally four massive shelves of strollers, rows and rows of car seats, etc. You could spend a week there and still not know what you were going to buy!
Needless to say, we decided on furniture (thanks mom – you are the best!) and narrowed down the bedding to a couple choices! After that, it’s time to get new carpet, replace windows, paint, etc. I have a feeling we are going to have a few busy months … so much for catching up on R&R before the baby arrives!
Either way, I am pumped and it truly feels real now! Can’t wait for you all to meet our little peanut!
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Hospital Tour & Pediatricians
On Saturday, Mike and I toured Royal Oak Beaumont’s Family Birthing Center.
I think it will be a great place for our families to wait – there is a 24-hour cafeteria, Starbucks, a bakery and more. In fact, our first tour stop was the bakery and Mike looked around at all of the pregnant women drooling and asked “How many people do you lose here on the tour?” Definitely should have been the last stop!
Next was the Triage unit, followed by the birthing room and the post-delivery room. All were very nice, but I’m not going to lie, the birthing bed terrified me. What a weird contraption! And did you know there are even things that come out of the ceiling for the doctor to use during the delivery? WHAT??? I didn’t ask specifically what those things were. They also shared that during delivery, they now let you drink instead of just having ice chips. That’s where I got excited – I said, “Alcohol?” The nurse laughed and said no, “Just clear liquids.” What a bummer, that sure would have made the delivery process a little more appealing (and tolerable!).
Finally, it ended in this little classroom where the nurse talked went over important things like what to bring to the hospital, visiting hours, etc. But, she also told us we should all have our pediatrician picked out before delivery. Never even thought about that one – can I blame it on pregnancy brain?! So – I started doing research on the Internet and found a few that got good reviews. But I figure there is nothing better than a referral from family or friends – so if you use a great pediatrician or know of one, please let me know!
On a side note, I am interviewing doulas over the next couple weeks. I’m not sure that I really need one, but if I am going to try this delivery thing (which is what Mike really wants – even though I’d be good with a C-section!), I think I am gonna need someone who is totally there for me. I thought many of them were the granola-type – very holistic, no drugs, etc., but I was wrong. They really are there to just support you in your decisions and make the whole process easier.
God knows I love my husband, but for those of you who know him as well as I do, you also know about his ADHD. I think he might get a little distracted or at least try and sneak a peek of things, which he is forbidden from! And my mom would probably be the only other one even allowed into the room (no offense everyone else!). Again – love her – but when I start cussing and wanting to hurt someone for getting me in this position, well she’ll be telling me to “Suck it up!” Probably not what I need. So we’ll see what this doula thing is all about and I will get back to you!
I think it will be a great place for our families to wait – there is a 24-hour cafeteria, Starbucks, a bakery and more. In fact, our first tour stop was the bakery and Mike looked around at all of the pregnant women drooling and asked “How many people do you lose here on the tour?” Definitely should have been the last stop!
Next was the Triage unit, followed by the birthing room and the post-delivery room. All were very nice, but I’m not going to lie, the birthing bed terrified me. What a weird contraption! And did you know there are even things that come out of the ceiling for the doctor to use during the delivery? WHAT??? I didn’t ask specifically what those things were. They also shared that during delivery, they now let you drink instead of just having ice chips. That’s where I got excited – I said, “Alcohol?” The nurse laughed and said no, “Just clear liquids.” What a bummer, that sure would have made the delivery process a little more appealing (and tolerable!).
Finally, it ended in this little classroom where the nurse talked went over important things like what to bring to the hospital, visiting hours, etc. But, she also told us we should all have our pediatrician picked out before delivery. Never even thought about that one – can I blame it on pregnancy brain?! So – I started doing research on the Internet and found a few that got good reviews. But I figure there is nothing better than a referral from family or friends – so if you use a great pediatrician or know of one, please let me know!
On a side note, I am interviewing doulas over the next couple weeks. I’m not sure that I really need one, but if I am going to try this delivery thing (which is what Mike really wants – even though I’d be good with a C-section!), I think I am gonna need someone who is totally there for me. I thought many of them were the granola-type – very holistic, no drugs, etc., but I was wrong. They really are there to just support you in your decisions and make the whole process easier.
God knows I love my husband, but for those of you who know him as well as I do, you also know about his ADHD. I think he might get a little distracted or at least try and sneak a peek of things, which he is forbidden from! And my mom would probably be the only other one even allowed into the room (no offense everyone else!). Again – love her – but when I start cussing and wanting to hurt someone for getting me in this position, well she’ll be telling me to “Suck it up!” Probably not what I need. So we’ll see what this doula thing is all about and I will get back to you!
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Question of the Day
As many of you know, I am going on a cruise April 10th! It’s a trip with Mike’s family – but I also like to think of it as a Baby Moon! It's our first time in a suite, so I am really looking forward to it.
Anyway, the weight gain keeps on coming (as do the pukes – so I will likely be carrying a bag 24-7), but what do about a swimsuit? That is the question.
Some have said get a bikini and rock your baby belly proudly!
Now perhaps if I had a pre-baby body like Kendra’s, I might be cool with this. But let’s just say I feel like the baby weight has seriously expanded to my butt and thighs.
Or, do I go conservative with the more one-piece approach. While I used to think of these as the “grandma” suits, it just might be the proper way to go so that people don’t think there is a beached whale aboard the ship.
Thoughts anyone? What did you wear when you were pregnant?
Anyway, the weight gain keeps on coming (as do the pukes – so I will likely be carrying a bag 24-7), but what do about a swimsuit? That is the question.
Some have said get a bikini and rock your baby belly proudly!
Now perhaps if I had a pre-baby body like Kendra’s, I might be cool with this. But let’s just say I feel like the baby weight has seriously expanded to my butt and thighs.
Or, do I go conservative with the more one-piece approach. While I used to think of these as the “grandma” suits, it just might be the proper way to go so that people don’t think there is a beached whale aboard the ship.
Thoughts anyone? What did you wear when you were pregnant?
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Mike's Future Rap Video
Gotta love the socks and sandals in this video. Thanks to C.A. for passing this along!
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A Dad's Life
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Wednesday, March 16, 2011
The Test Results Are In
So I had my monthly doctor appointment today and we received the results of our full integrated screen. This is the test that determines your baby’s risk for genetic defects. I am pleased to say that our risk was calculated at 1 out of 9,500 which means we don’t have to do any further testing! YEAH!
Beyond that, baby’s heartbeat is good and strong at about 150. The only area of concern at this point is my platelet level, which we are closely monitoring. I am on the low side of the range… so we just have to make sure we stay there and don’t dip much more. Otherwise, there could be some delivery concerns. We’re staying positive and hoping for the best!
Oh – and did I forget to mention that so far, I have gained 11 pregnancy pounds. OUCH! They keep saying that is normal, but I continue to feel like a house. Just means I need to start eating healthier and maybe get back to the gym. I have started mall walking on my lunch (you know, like those little old ladies), so hopefully that is helping a little. You would think with all the puking, I just wouldn’t eat – but no, momma still loves her McDonald’s and Taco Bell.
We have our hospital tour this weekend … so I’ll be sure to update you all next week!
Beyond that, baby’s heartbeat is good and strong at about 150. The only area of concern at this point is my platelet level, which we are closely monitoring. I am on the low side of the range… so we just have to make sure we stay there and don’t dip much more. Otherwise, there could be some delivery concerns. We’re staying positive and hoping for the best!
Oh – and did I forget to mention that so far, I have gained 11 pregnancy pounds. OUCH! They keep saying that is normal, but I continue to feel like a house. Just means I need to start eating healthier and maybe get back to the gym. I have started mall walking on my lunch (you know, like those little old ladies), so hopefully that is helping a little. You would think with all the puking, I just wouldn’t eat – but no, momma still loves her McDonald’s and Taco Bell.
We have our hospital tour this weekend … so I’ll be sure to update you all next week!
Monday, March 14, 2011
And the Winner Is ...
Thank you to everyone who voted … especially my way! Fortunately, the overall consensus was to find out, so that is what we’ll be doing on March 28th at 8:30 a.m. We’ve decided to invite our moms and then take them out to breakfast to celebrate. So stay tuned for the big news!
On a separate note, I am subscribed to those weekly email updates on your pregnancy. It sort of gives you this progression of how you should be feeling, how much weight you should be gaining, etc. Well – now that I am 17 weeks, I am officially supposed to be past my first trimester and done with morning sickness. Let me just tell you how this morning started – with a big ‘ole puke! Not only do I have to “spring forward” and lose an hour of sleep, I barf my breakfast. LOVELY start to a Monday! If anyone knows any witchcraft or anything that can help this stop, please cast a spell STAT! Just don’t bother any warlocks, they seem too busy trying to help Charlie Sheen.
On a separate note, I am subscribed to those weekly email updates on your pregnancy. It sort of gives you this progression of how you should be feeling, how much weight you should be gaining, etc. Well – now that I am 17 weeks, I am officially supposed to be past my first trimester and done with morning sickness. Let me just tell you how this morning started – with a big ‘ole puke! Not only do I have to “spring forward” and lose an hour of sleep, I barf my breakfast. LOVELY start to a Monday! If anyone knows any witchcraft or anything that can help this stop, please cast a spell STAT! Just don’t bother any warlocks, they seem too busy trying to help Charlie Sheen.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
I'm Back ...
I know it has been a while since I posted and I am sorry. Things have just been crazy busy and by the time I get home, well … I am pretty much ready for bed. I guess exhaustion is another joy of pregnancy, huh?
That being said, I am happy to share another belly picture. Ok, maybe happy isn’t the right word – but I’m sharing anyway! I feel like I am definitely “blooming!” Look at that Buddha belly!
Anyone, one of the big debates Mike and I are having right now is if we want to find out the sex of the baby. I say ABSO-FRICKIN-LUTELY! Mike, well he thinks it should be like opening a Christmas present and a surprise.
So what do you think? Our appointment is currently scheduled for March 28th.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Getting Better?
At this point, I think I have tried just about everything for my morning sickness. Zofron, Phenegran, B6 & Unisom, bed rest and now acupuncture. The good news is that I felt much better on Tuesday and most of Wednesday. However, last night ended up with me hurling my snack of Cheetos (apparently baby doesn’t like these!). And let’s just say the Golden Grahams did not agree with me this morning. Did I mention how much I have loved these last few weeks?
My sister-in-law recommended Slurpees, so I think that might be next on my list! J However, as I mentioned to her, that would require me trying to make myself presentable to go out somewhere. We have all seen the WalMart shopper pics, right? I mean, 7-11 junkies could be next!
But seriously people – does this end? My doctor said that if I am having any good days, that is a sign that I am getting better. Really!!! Sure doesn’t feel that way. What has been your experience?
I really just want to be able to start working out … at least a little. But that requires feeling better. And we have a big family cruise coming up in April and I don’t want to be the pudgy girl in a swimsuit (since the average person probably won’t be able to tell I am preggers). I just feel out of shape and would love to hit up pilates or get on the treadmill. I guess one day at a time.
Other than that, I am hanging in there. Getting ready to sign us up for the hospital tour, labor and delivery class (yes – c-sections are included) and infant CPR. I know Mike is going to love all of this! Poor guy can’t even be in the same room if I am throwing up.
Oh – to end with, I am pretty sure someone possessed my hubby last night. He came to bed and actually said something I made for dinner was good. WHAT? He hates my cooking – that’s why he always does it! It was like Christmas! Now if only I could eat Jimmy John's again before the end of August! UGH!
Have a great weekend everyone! I am back to the doctor and work (I hope) on Monday!
Thursday, February 10, 2011
12 Weeks Belly Photo
And here it is ... the big 'ole belly is growing. There is a reason you don't see my face - it's cause I can't believe this is me ALREADY!
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| Amy 12 Weeks |
Will the Morning Sickness Ever End?
Let me start by saying the fun never stops. I am now working from home until February 21st because my morning sickness has gotten so severe that my doctor doesn’t want me driving. I guess dry heaving or throwing up about every hour doesn’t make it safe for me – or others – on the road. The hope is that we can get the Zofran built up in my system enough for me to feel better … otherwise, the next step is a Reglan pump. So if anyone has any other tips for getting me through these next few weeks – SUGGESTIONS ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED!
We have also started taking belly pictures (because yes, I am growing to the size of a house already) and I hope to get them posted soon. Unfortunately, Mike is the only one who can download them, so I am sort of at his mercy. MEN! I was hoping to keep my semi-figure for a while, but it has been almost impossible to exercise because of the way I feel. So long to skinny jeans, hello elastic!
Anyway, for those of you who know me, you know that I am TERRIFIED of the whole delivery process. Yes – it is already on my mind. In my perfect world, I am going to just have a C-section and keep all of my “goodies” intact. But Mike is really pushing for me to do things the normal way, with a really good epidural of course. I have heard some interesting things about doulas, but I’m not sure if that is too hokey for me. Or do they just support natural birth? Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Can you recommend anyone?
Really looking forward to some great input here!
Monday, February 7, 2011
Intro and Full Integrated Screen
Hello to my family, friends ... and anyone else who is taking the time to read this! My name is Amy and I am going to say it. I'm PREGNANT (you know, if you couldn't tell by the name of the blog!) I am in my mid-30s, and let's just say I have pretty much been freaking out since I found out. So I figured, this is a great therapeutic way to get everything off my chest ... well, maybe except these gigantic things that basically appeared overnight.
Anyway, I am about 12 weeks today and have had the joy of this so-called "morning sickness" since about seven weeks. Let me tell you - a man must have invented this term, cause there is no just morning part of it. It should be called all day sickness or you are going to be horribly miserable for the next few weeks sickness. Speaking of that, a man must have came up with the term geriatric pregnancy too - which is what they call you when you are over 35. WHAT? Regardless, I am happy to report that so far, baby is healthy and everything is moving along as it should. It is definitely stressful waiting for that first ultrasound to see the heartbeat - it's like the first time you really feel like you can breathe!
Today, I had a second ultrasound as part of my Full Integrated Screen (don't ask about my husband not making it though!). Anyway, this apparently helps give you a more concrete determination of your risk for a child with genetic defects. There is a second blood screening in a few weeks, so it'll take some time to get the results, but I will keep everyone updated. It really is pretty cool what technology can do these days - not to mention maybe not having to have the big needle through the belly for an amnio. Like that wouldn't scare the beejeezus out of someone.
Oh - and I have a kidney ultrasound tomorrow. Yes, that's right - I am a stone former apparently. I was admitted to the hospital just before getting pregnant and have more to pass. Can you say FUN? Can't wait for those little "bundles" of joy to start their journey from my kidney. UGH.
Now that I have officially bored you, I want to stress that since this is my first - I am welcoming and ENCOURAGING tips from anyone and everyone about being pregnant and how to get through some of the rough patches. You can only read so many books before freaking out that everything you do is going to hurt the baby - that's where all you wonderful people come in!
Talk to you soon!
Anyway, I am about 12 weeks today and have had the joy of this so-called "morning sickness" since about seven weeks. Let me tell you - a man must have invented this term, cause there is no just morning part of it. It should be called all day sickness or you are going to be horribly miserable for the next few weeks sickness. Speaking of that, a man must have came up with the term geriatric pregnancy too - which is what they call you when you are over 35. WHAT? Regardless, I am happy to report that so far, baby is healthy and everything is moving along as it should. It is definitely stressful waiting for that first ultrasound to see the heartbeat - it's like the first time you really feel like you can breathe!
Today, I had a second ultrasound as part of my Full Integrated Screen (don't ask about my husband not making it though!). Anyway, this apparently helps give you a more concrete determination of your risk for a child with genetic defects. There is a second blood screening in a few weeks, so it'll take some time to get the results, but I will keep everyone updated. It really is pretty cool what technology can do these days - not to mention maybe not having to have the big needle through the belly for an amnio. Like that wouldn't scare the beejeezus out of someone.
Oh - and I have a kidney ultrasound tomorrow. Yes, that's right - I am a stone former apparently. I was admitted to the hospital just before getting pregnant and have more to pass. Can you say FUN? Can't wait for those little "bundles" of joy to start their journey from my kidney. UGH.
Now that I have officially bored you, I want to stress that since this is my first - I am welcoming and ENCOURAGING tips from anyone and everyone about being pregnant and how to get through some of the rough patches. You can only read so many books before freaking out that everything you do is going to hurt the baby - that's where all you wonderful people come in!
Talk to you soon!
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